Well, Laura, sounds like the boy is going to try and make you and your daughter take the fall for this disclosure and focus the blame on you both for not moving on because he's ready to....one little discretion in his past and 'you're not getting over it'....his agenda, not yours....seems it's sort of like a hit and run driver, eh...the damage is done, it's in the past, now let's move on. Involving your parents, is he forcing people to take sides...Mr. Nice Guy versus the folks his behviour impacted. I'd lock him out of my life. He wants to visit your parents...make it clear to them he's not welcome in your home because of his molestation of sisters/half-sisters I think they are, are they not?? But, be careful you don't end up with egg on your face...you need to play this one out carefully. He sounds as though he's a master at manipulation and deception.
Posted on Jul 30, 2012, 7:06 PM from IP address 126.96.36.199