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CG
Posted Nov 5, 2009 9:33 PM
Angie, I totally understand your feelings of worry about the boys. Since my D disclosed, I get nervous if any of her other brothers show her any affection - which is so sad. And any little thing she says can freak me out. That said, it is highly possible that your sons are reacting to the tension and drama that has been going on at home. If you've told them nothing or everything about the abuse or it's something in between - they are going to have their own issues. They need help coping with their feelings, but it doesn't mean they've been abused. I like the idea of having a trusted friend ask them - they could very well be trying to protect you. (From whatever - their feelings, their little problems, etc.)Take a deep breath, don't panic, and continue to investigate.
Big cyber {H}
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