My almost 3 year old has disclosed to counselor, me, er doctor, etc. but he is so little it is hard to know exactly what happened... I am asking court for supervised visitation from their father (perpetrator as told by 3 year old). Problem is 7 year old is devastated and confused and doesn't know what to think and misses his dad. I have seen inappropriate things with 7yo when he was little-- not illegal, but his dad sucked on his tongue and pinched his nipples... Now 7 year old keeps saying about 20 times a day "I'm a bad person... I hate myself..., etc." Says he wants to see his dad. What do I do? I feel so bad keeping him from his dad but when I hear my 3 year old disclosing and crying to me non-stop about his dad "cutting his penis" and many other disturbing things, I can't ever imagine letting him see his dad again. This is so hard!!!!!