I'm sorry that your family and step-daughter is going through this. Especially to your step-daughter since her own mom doesn't believe in her. I guess, you have to give her space and let her know that you and your husband are there for her. As what you suggested, just keep everything as normal. Going to a <a href="http://www.militaryschools411.com/usa.html">different school</a> will be difficult but just be patient and she will adjust soon. Hopefully, all will settle soon. I'll pray for you and your family.