How ironic, Spinning...they would believe their granddaughter and not their daughter?? I would have difficulty in even being in their presence but then, the one holding the grudge is the one who suffers...I know from experience. I think that with both the girls I've raised, I've just run out of steam dealing with them. I'm tired of being blamed. And I'm responsible too, for not making my feelings more known to them and perhaps pushed them back years ago. I've always understood but not necessarily asked much for myself in all this. They've basically run roughshod over me for years. At least that's how it feels to me. Thanks again for sharing your experience and feelings. It does help.