It's been two years almost to the day that I was posting on here about my daughter who was 3 at the time and she disclosed first about her father touching her and then a few months later her pappy. Long story short, we went to court - custody was established - I hired and fired two attorney's because these allegations were now in the mix. I was crucifixed by the judge, the therapist and attacked at all angles while trying to protect my daughter and find out what's going on with her.
Well, for an update: In the last two years, her pappy (the 2nd perp) has died. She still sees her father every other weekend. But since then, she has learned to "tell" Mommy or Daddy about anyone "touching her private parts." The education has been the key. She showed this when my best friend's 10 year old son asked my daughter to drop her pants when she was alone with him. She immediately came to me and told me. And the boy admitted he did. She is LEARNING. She is doing good.
AND NOW- my daughter who is now 5 years old has come forward AGAIN. Now, she is claiming her male cousin who is 11 years and in the same household as her father has put his finger in her and she was very upset about it a few months ago. And most recently, stated he licked her and touched her vagina. The boy was talked to about the first incident several months ago by his grandparents (her dad's parents). Then, the second incident happened a month ago. I then reported it to the authorities. Something is going in that house. Her grandmother who is legal guardian of the grandson (my daughter's cousin) flipped out on me. I'm a bad mother, etc etc. Blaming me. Stating she has seen my daughter "masterbate" more often. I wonder why???? I clearly stated to her THAT SOMETHING HAS BEEN GOING ON THAT HOUSE FOR TWO YEARS. IT IS ONLY COMING FROM THAT HOUSE. NO WHERE ELSE. My daugher had a sexual assault exam and the doctor found nothing. Her father blames me thinking I'm making "stuff up" to take his daughter from him. I am trying to be smart about all of this and I am documenting everything. I believe my daughter.