The instructions don't exist. Follow that inner voice. Live your life. Life doesn't need instructions, it defeats the purpose in fact.
Although it took me decades to learn this.
I remember as a teen, and beyond, thinking that others had it together. So self assured, so certain about goals, and what life was about. It took me another decade to realize we're all the same. We all have the same knowledge of what comes next (none).
Great post Ice. Sorry if I digress a bit.

Jesus spoke too, of the Way:
Luke 17 (KJV)
And when he was demanded of the Pharisees, when the kingdom of God should come, he answered them and said, The kingdom of God cometh not with observation: Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you.