Question:
ever a wake at night and worry?



I've been do'n this here lately.

about get'n rid of stuff!

It may be due to hubby's heath.

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Love All As ONE!
One!life

My mum is in very poor health at the moment. She suffers from emphysema and will get no better, so she can really only maintain her current health, and this is slipping. Also fading eye sight caused by glaucoma, which is also slipping...

Still, we have to bring / keep positivity in our day to day life. We need to be strong somehow. We seem to be coping most of the time, or at least on the surface, but now and then we crumble.

I think we need this. It is like a safety valve.

We also need to rebuild our strength and carry on.

Hence, quiet moments when possible. Beautiful music and pictures and even laughter.

Your pictures are the LIGHT trying to balance Itself. They work wonders!

Here are some from me to you and a little soothing music as well.






Amazingly cute!




LOVE to you, One!life sister.
All my very best wishes.
ALWAYS most welcome.

One!life > I completely understand, dearest sister
April 14 2012 at 10:35 AM
JackieJ (Login BlueJudah)
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My mum is in very poor health at the moment.
She suffers from emphysema
and will get no better,
so she can really only maintain her current health,
and this is slipping.
Also fading eye sight caused by glaucoma,
which is also slipping...

Still, we have to bring / keep positivity in our day to day life.
We need to be strong somehow.
We seem to be coping most of the time,
or at least on the surface,
but now and then we crumble.

I think we need this.
It is like a safety valve.

We also need to rebuild our strength
and carry on.

Hence, quiet moments when possible.
Beautiful music and pictures
and even laughter.

Your pictures are the LIGHT trying to balance Itself.
They work wonders!

Here are some from me to you
and a little soothing music as well.

One!life > I did not hear the music!
But Thanks for your kindness,
Read my post to mondolife, also.
this is what trig'd me to share my worry'ness, here!

Love Ya, jackielife!

Love All As ONE!
One!life

jackielife share'd > Amazingly cute!

LOVE to you, One!life sister.
All my very best wishes.
ALWAYS most welcome.

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I seem to be having trouble with the YouTube codes at the moment.
I did try but it failed, so I removed the code and forgot to remove the music remark.

When I fix the problem, or someone helps me (), I WILL post you a little Something.

In the meantime:














Haha, I just tried again and all seems OK!

Silly ole pooh bear me!

jackielife share'd > Sorry about the music, sister
April 15 2012 at 1:55 AM
Jackie (Login BlueJudah)
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Response to One!life > jackielife: Thanks for all that, My Lady!
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I seem to be having trouble with the YouTube codes at the moment.
I did try but it failed, so I removed the code and forgot to remove the music remark.

When I fix the problem, or someone helps me (), I WILL post you a little Something.

In the meantime:


Haha, I just tried again and all seems OK!

Silly ole pooh bear me!

One!life > Thanks jackielife!
Reminds me of a box I once had:



My sister made me a ceramic doll,


with a music box on the bottom of it,
and as the music play the doll turn'd
But I broke it, it fall off my dresser.

Love the music, Thank, Girl!

Love Ya, jackielife!

Love All As ONE!
One!life

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I hadn't read that your hubby had passed away.

When did this happen?

Love to you Sister ..

Mondo

mondolife share'd > I'm very sorry for your loss One!Life
April 14 2012 at 10:48 AM

Mondo (Premier Login Oscar50)
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I hadn't read that your hubby had passed away.

When did this happen?

One!life > O'No!
that has not happe'd!

I was share'n that I worry,
and awake'n at nights if I should start
get'n rid if stuff, it would be so,
much easier, now then if I wait!

and yesterday we were in town,
and a tornado was happe'n.
We was at Wal-Mart I had ran in for a few personal iteams,
mouth wash, ect.
and Hubby had stay'd in the car.
the Wal-mart presonals was go'n around tell'n everyone a tornado was
on the ground and we need'd to go back to the back of the store.
I told the lady, no my Hubby was old and outside byhimself,
and she told me to leave my cart and go then.
I tried to get him to park and come inside,
but he was so heart set on go'n home.
We almost hit a truck while drive'n, due to the heavey rain.

Once we turn'd on the radio,
the news people told people to stop
and take cover the tornado was in the rain some where
and they too could not see it
and everyone might run right into it.
so we pull'd into McDonalds.
until the rain stop'd.

There was tree up root'd in the roads.
in a trail park not far a moblie home was completly gone.

I was so up set that we had not stay'd at Wal-mart.
his age of judgement, may well have, got'n us both kill'd!
But I can't tell him, his always been in control.

Sorry if I miss-lead in any thing I share'd,
but he is O'kay and Alive.

It's time that as close that make one think, ahead!

Love Ya, mondolife!

Love All As ONE!
One!life

mondolife share'd > Love to you Sister ..

Mondo

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Glad your hubby is still around.

You wrote:

"It may be due to hubby's heath."


I read:

"It may be due to hubby's death."


You meant:

"It may be due to hubby's health."


Wet snow and sleet today. Yesterday too. Waiting for the Sun.

mondolife share'd > My eyes .. and your typo
April 14 2012 at 11:47 AM

Mondo (Premier Login Oscar50)
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Glad your hubby is still around.

One!life > Thanks!
Me too......!
not ready for that to happen,
any time soon.

mondolife share'd > You wrote:

"It may be due to hubby's heath."


I read:

"It may be due to hubby's death."


You meant:

"It may be due to hubby's health."

One!life > Yes!
Thats a handy cap, my brain trys to out think me,
at times, and thats when mistakes comes out of hide'n!
I try to prooof read, but I miss a few!


mondolife shar'd > Wet snow and sleet today.
Yesterday too.
Waiting for the Sun.

One!life > mostly tornados here!
for the last two days.

Love Ya, mondolife!

Love All As ONE!
One!life


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If you can find comfort in death. I never have. On another note: I have found letting a loved one go is comforting -and a powerful experience. Death unexpected and violent is so kmuch differnet than the beauty of just letting go.

Hopefully when your hubby does go, you can be there and share that wonderful lifetime experience.

Undoubetly it ill be a huge change for you. None of us like change - but with it comes growth and power.

I have been working with two women who have recently lost their husbands. Their finaces are a mess and for the most part they are LOST.

Being what I am I'm really tough on them about change. I know they think I'm a S.O.B. but they keep calling, thus I must give some kind of strength and reassurance. I don't know if I'm a freind or nuts, but these are people in need and no one else seems to care.

It takes a long time to begin to understand people on this mediuam. Your a very special person Onelife. I sincerely hope when your particaption in ending this wonderful experience of life that you might consider it a blessing and not as a loss.

You have spoke of your land, trees, and effort to maintain and harvest your land. This is part of your life - when your hubby is gone the burden will double - and you will handle it.

You have always made the most from the worst and that is unlikely to ever change.

icemanlife share'd > Not sure:
April 14 2012 at 7:17 PM
Iceman (no login)

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If you can find comfort in death.
I never have.
On another note:
I have found letting a loved one go is
comforting -and a powerful experience.
Death unexpected and violent is
so kmuch differnet than the beauty of
just letting go.

Hopefully when your hubby does go,
you can be there
and share that wonderful
lifetime experience.

One!life > I often wonder about that,
when he goes off by himself.
(mostly since his health has made a change)
I'm glade when he ask me, to come alone, better.
At lest I'll know, and not have to have a call,
of sad'ness or wonder'n if I had been there,
would it, have been a differant out come.
by me help'n in some ways- an extra eye.

icemanlife share'd > Undoubetly it ill be
a huge change for you.
None of us like change - but
with it comes growth
and power.

I have been working with two women
who have recently lost their husbands.
Their finaces are a mess
and for the most part
they are LOST.

Being what I am
I'm really tough on them
about change.
I know they think I'm a S.O.B.
but they keep calling,
thus I must give some kind of strength
and reassurance.
I don't know if I'm a freind or nuts,
but these are people in need
and no one else seems to care.

One!life > icemanlife,
are you say, you are a
help profession of finaces for person!
("working with two women,
finace are a mess,
being what I am")

there are time when,
you think who are your friends,
that you'd think they be there for you,
just want what they can get of you.
hubby's family members were like that,
when his mother pass'd.
It was like can we help in some ways.
It was more like I what this, or where's her this.

I guess that too has made me worry
and want to go through,stuff now,
while his still here, with me.
Some times, people can act like, vol'ture's.
and care not when you'd in need, of support'ness.

icemanlife share'd > It takes a long time
to begin to understand people
on this mediuam.
Your a very special person Onelife.
I sincerely hope
when your particaption in ending this
wonderful experience of life
that you might consider it
a blessing and not as a loss.

You have spoke of your land, trees,
and effort to maintain and harvest your land.
This is part of your life - when your hubby is
gone the burden will double - and you will handle it.

You have always made the most
from the worst
and that is unlikely to ever change.

One!life > Thanks icemanlife,
That was very encouraging.
I've in the begin, could not share,
much about myself on the boards,
due to the hatefulness I seen others,
treat'd.

I was told once,
that I've made it this far,
by the skills,
I have develope'd(ma'new'ver'd around things put forth me),
and keep'n them from whom may,
do things in a much differant way,
then I, due to my unable'ness to do some things,
most other people do, without even have to think about,
do'n them.

So my handy caps are as well my helpful'ness, in most cases.
But my fear, some times, will not allow me in, some places.
and that is when the above(heavely) helps,
show'n away I may never have,
ever known could be.

Love ya, icemanlife!

Love All As ONE!
One!life

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