Perhaps you did indeed provide support. I have traced her a bit here and on the groups and indeed find she was constantly in a state of struggle. Look at the very pages we are on here and you shall see this lady is working to make this site a more enjoyable experience for us. Perhaps I was in error and approached all of this in an improper fashion, but this young lady was constantly under fire here and in your Groups.
My only crime was that I indeed have seen her and believe the situation of her leaving was quite unnecessary. This is not the first time this lady has left all of us. I personally believe it will not be possible for us to find someone we idealize in our sexual fantasies about spanking who will also try as hard to please us as she did.
Now I am sure you can find some additional reason to retort my message here. No doubt the same men (and I am a man as well) who accused her of being "off topic" will find my comments wanting as well. But I live in California and this young lady is a shy and warm little person who is loaded with self doubt to say the least but who graced our humble table to try to make us all more joyful in our fantasies.
I am persisting in this from a minority position because I no doubt share spanking fantasies about things that are clearly out of my personal reach. This small person was within our reach through this site while not in person. Believe me Mr. Moderator any of us would be the envy of the spanking world if this little person would grace our real life. And now as quick as a wink she is gone and we are making excuses about the fact that we were her friend or that we tried to help her.
For some reason we have failed here and perhaps I played some role in this. But at least I did see her in person which is something none of you shall ever do and I personally believe we are now missing something. I don't know what needs to be done here and I am no psychologist but this is a very lonely little person who was seeking companionship here.
We have drawn pictures of her, joked with her, listened to her bawl us all out, and frankly made this little person a part of our lives on the Internet. Certainly someone with a bit of tenderness can find some way to bring this little person back and promise not to make her work so hard for acceptance only to find male rejection as her reward.
I without doubt have overstepped the boundaries or propriety and honestly am not close to her at all. Some of you are and she does answer your messages to this moment from what I hear from others.