Dear Holly:
I like your selection of the naughty boys on Friends (dibs on Matt LeBlanc). As for Mel Gibson, say no more, he's a classic spankee. After doing some thinking, I remembered that I somehow forgot to mention Hugh Grant in my last post (how could that happen?). Also Matt Damon and Ben Affleck.
As for your husband, I think he just needs to be brought around. Have you been to the Disciplinary Wives Club at www.disciplinarywives club.com? Also, I don't know if you like fiction, but Julnick's Story Nook has absolutely fabulous selection of great F/M spanking stories.(http://www.mybdsm.com/pages/Julnick/Entrance.htm