Cynthia, I don't think you're a troublemaker just because you disagree with a lot of the other visitors as to the desired severity of a spanking. In a free country we're supposed to be able to disagree in an orderly fashion. I've stated my preference before, and it's reflected in my drawings. I like to see a little reddening of the skin, but no bruises or welts. Some other people apparently like bruises and welts. I guess that's alright if both participants are legal adults and they're both willing to go that far.
In the movies, where everything is pretend, a lady can SEEM to be hit harder than she really is. In my opinion, even that can go too far, but I watch what I want and others watch what they want.
Right now, we have a nice little forum for discussing our views and sharing information. I for one don't want to get into a fight that will make Arild angry enough to pull the plug on the whole thing.
Arild, thank you for hosting this website and your new Yahoo group. It's delightful!