Very few fully support 16:9 but you can fix any program out put even if its 4:3 so that it will do the right thing.
The program infoEdit is used to re command the inf files to auto letterbox or what ever you need in the outcome. The same program will fix the pan & Scan thing that has been asked here.
Till Maestro I used SpruceUp for 16:9 the process to use it was first posted whilst I was away in New Zealand. Here are the URL's
Mine:
http://geocities.com/xaussie01au/DVD_remote.html
that leads to Gareth's how to do it in dtail as there was no point in re-inventing the wheel or repeating the info on my page:
http://www.ghorne.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/vidtest/169frame.htm