My own journey to this point has been one of self discovery and of learning how to be truly me. I am Asexual, meaning that I have no sexual attraction to other people so I feel no need or desire to have sex with other people. It took me many years to work out what I am and why I had no desire to pursue a relationship. I did try a couple of times at short term relationship of a few weeks but there just was no desire or sexual attraction. I have no idea what sexual attraction would even feel like. I however did/do have a masturbation addiction which was controlling my life leaving little or no time between work and masturbation to live a life worth living, so I chose a lifestyle of total sexual abstinence. I chose to use a chastity device to achieve my goal as it was the best and easiest method to achieve this goal. The use of a chastity device meant that I did not need to use will power to control sexual urges and temptations, masturbation and sex for that matter were simply not possible with the device as a physical barrier. Hence my mind and body were freed with the least amount of effort. A friend keeps the keys to the device to prevent all forms of temptations, he supports my lifestyle choice and can see the positive changes it has made in me.
Total sexual abstinence (permanent celibacy) has for me freed my mind and body to be more productive, I think clearer, I have a life now that previously denied me because sexual urges obstructed the the thought processes that has since enabled me to be more truly myself and seek more from my life. I am happier and more content than I can ever remember being, I even have a hobby now that I can hopefully make into a career (photography).
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