big dog it aint no problem. like i said at the end of the day we brothers homie. we all come from the same source by whatever name we may call it. the more each of us realize that the better this world will be. i pray for your lady cuz i got love in my heart. thats my sister. and yeah its life. it is what is but theres so much we can change...even cancer. we are more than we think. than what we give ourselves credit for. look within p...look within.