Hugs for you Val as you cross through this process. It

sometimes takes a long time. When my mother died I sometimes wished I had not seen her dead but something in me told me I needed to. I suppose I did need to see her and say goodbye but it took quite a while before I could ease the pain and shock associated with that scene. I think time is the biggie and then as you said, the sorting out of it, one thing at a time. Of course you are not crazy honey. It has been hard on you and it is okay to admit that. It is funny sometimes how others don't want to hear it. I think they just don't know what to to say or do. You take care and know that we are here for you in good times as well as bad.


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