Well said Steve

I liked your definitions.Most times what we hear when someone says 'I'm not being fed' is that they're not being catered to or stroked or getting what they want out of church,the pastor doesn't preach or teach like Pastor Z or Pastor X at the church they went to prior to this church,the girls' dresses are too too....,tattoos,not teaching from 'my' favorite translation,didn't recognise God's call for metotake over.......