The key is understanding that maybe you have some challanges other people dont and being able to self correct for them so that you are always in the best light and on the track to succeed........I know so many "normal" people who havent a CLUE as to how they come across and do nothing but get into trouble as a result....being female may be a huge advantage too as it has been surmised women have Two speech and language areas to the male's one, which means woman have a "back up system"that keeps them from having as hard a time from autism as ther male counterparts...they have more material to work with.Anyway, Kudos...and never let the idiots get you down, kids are,to paraphrase Icarus, naturally cruel, 99% of everything they say should be ignored.{Make that 100%}