Hi there
I'm 55 years old and have been married for 37 years. After having four daughters (all epesitomies after)I developed stress incontinence and suffered for quite a few years until I had a bladder repair op (12 years ago). This worked for the stress incontinence but I am still unable to hold my urine mid-stream until near the end of flow as my muscles are so weak.
My biggest problem is a very stretched vagina which makes intercourse much less pleasurable than it has been; very little feeling and at times my husband is unable to climax inside of me. I have been very distraught about this although my husband has been very understanding. He seems less worried than me! I found this website by accident whilst searching the web under "sexual intercourse problems". I must admit I had never heard of kegels (we call them pelvic floor exercises here in the UK) let alone a Kegelmaster so I was very sceptical about ordering one. Before ordering I emailed with a question to see if it would work for me. The answer was "yes it would" so I thought I have nothing to lose if it's a money-back guarantee. I have had my exerciser for just under two weeks and already both my husband and I are noticing the difference. At first I was using it twice a day and getting some discomfort but after getting advice here to use it just once a day, that has disappeared. My motto was "twice a day will work twice as quick" but obviously that is not the case here!
We have just celebrated our 37th Wedding Anniversay and I am keen to get back to how our relationship was when I was less stretched. I know I am very impatient but my husband keeps reminding me that you can't repair 30 odd years of stretching and damage down there in under two weeks, so I know it will take time but I'm very optimistic of the outcome. My muscles are definitely getting stronger. I can now hold a squeeze without the exerciser for more than 10 seconds, something I could not do before, in fact I could barely tell I was using the muscles let alone hold it for any length of time! If you have been married for a long time like me and feel your sex life is waning because of stretched muscles, I would recommend this device. I am going to recommend it to my two married daughters and also friends if the topic should arise. Regards to all, "sceptic Kathy" in England, UK
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