I felt the need to get with others, even though my wife was not interested. First, I joined the outfit that publishes N magazine. Through it, I found out about a non-landed group in NJ who met for canooding and in the winter at YMCAs or other club buildings. My wife let me go to a few of those meetings.
In La (after living in Singapore and boating nude by myself almost every Saturday), I contacted someone on the web to go with me to the club meeting down near New Orleans. I went with him a couple of times. My wife found it hard to take that I'd go with someone I didn't know rather than stay home with her. I think that finally got the message across to her how serious I was about nudity.
She still won't join me. I'm nude on my own property and hike trails across neighbors' natural areas down along the creek below.