My wife and I have been to several resorts across the country and have had enjoyable experiences at each of them. So from experience and observation, I would make the following suggestions:
1. In general, at nudist resorts it is kind of an unspoken rule that people will not intrude on newcomers, by that I mean that they may greet you but leave it up to you if you want to be left alone.
I think most first timers are nervous and tend to give off signals that they want to be left alone. Then after the visit they complain that people would not talk to them. So, if you want to meet people, let people know you are open for conversation.
2. I have found some of our best attempts at meeting people were in the hot tub. Generally, in the evening more people go to the hot tub. I guess it puts you closer together and the conversation is easier. Again, join in the conversation and you should meet some interesting people.
3. There are various views about when to get nude on a first time visit. I think it will make for a more enjoyable experience if you take you clothes off right away. I have watched people go nearly all day and not get undressed, and they did not appear to have a good day.
I hope you all will go to a resort and that it will be something you will enjoy.
Will-Be naked and not ashamed