Boyd - you asked us to keep you posted. As I posted several weeks ago (Guess Who's Coming to Dinner and Return Visit) my sister-in-law (SIL) and her twin daughters came and visted with me and our three children. Our husbands were at my SIL's house working on a project. The kids played together all morning; then we had lunch and then our kids suggested it was pool time. Matt had the heater up and running since Thursday; it was p/c in in low 70's but fine in our back yard. My SIL and I both came to the pool dressed in large T shirts as we had discussed. She undressed the twins and my 3 know the drill and have their own baskets for their clothing by the pool. Bottom line is my SIL and I took off our T shirts so we could be in the pool with the 5 skinny dipping cousins. It really was a great time together and seemed all so "natural". After the swim it was time for the twins and my youngest to take a nap. My SIL dried her chidren and put T shirts on them and off they went for a nap. My SIL then asked if we (she and I) could go back to the pool for another swim. She repeatedly said "this is so wund der ful" and "I never knew this could feel this good" - and that she had longed to do this for 14 years
(see previous post). She would like to go to our "secluded" beach with us and our husbands when it is warmer. Then she told me about a one day leaderhsip seminar in her church on the 3rd Sat in January and did I think Matt would want to attend along with her husband and perhaps she and the twins could come up for that day and...I spoke with Matt and he would like to attend the seminar and also promote the time with our SIL and the cousins.
Wanted to get this out quickly before church. Thanks again to all for your support, Sue & Matt
Sounds as though your weather is better than here in central Va.
Our church services got snowed out this morning.
Spent about 3 hours this afternoon plowing out. Broke a tire chain on my Gravely but got the plowing done by shucking the sulky and walking behind it with the dual wheels on.
Neighbor next door just drove out through it with her AWD Audi.
Needless to say, I didn't get any nude hike in today.
Can't get a clear read on your B-I-L. Your S-I-L exhibited a positive reaction when just the two of you were able to 'skinny dip'in your pool. From the fact that she wants to visit your 'secluded beach' with her husband and you and Matt, it seems that she wants to share with her husband.
The visit in January sounds very exciting. Baby steps lead to full steps and more.
This is a suggestion and no more. Let's say that they visit y'all one day. How would it play if you and Matt had to tend to some 'shopping' or some such, leaving your brother-in-law and your sister-in-law "in charge of the fort" for a few hours? Of course, the pool would be heated 'just so'.
KuzeN - this site is like a visit of the Magi - you are always giving me just one more gift...I love the idea about having my SIL and BIL over and then Matt and I going out for several hours, leaving them, the twins and our three with a heated pool. When my SIL comes up in January for her visit with the twins I think I will suggest this (after I talk it over with Matt). Thanks so much, Sue and Matt
By the way Bearone if you are out there and reading this. Took Scott to the peditrician for his 7 y/o checkup. We are now in a new group and he had a new doctor (female). The nurse had him strip and put on a robe. For the exam he had to remove his robe and of course I was there. The doctor examined his "bathing suit area" thoroughly and kept looking at his skin, finally I said we have a very private pool area where are kids enjoy skinny dipping. She replied, "Oh...just be sure to use plenty of sun block". Thanks for the line - I think I would have gone blank if she had asked. Sue
KuzeN - I do appreciate the clarification. You have a very organized and methodical way about presenting material. It looks like a great plan - will keep you posted. Sue
No, seriously, that is a greatly appreciated compliment. You can see the difference between my writing it in a narrative form versus laying it out in a 'one, two, three..' format.
Thank you, very much.
Hope that this helped. We're looking forward to finding out how the B-I-L and S-I-L fare on their own. You know the Bible talks about little children leading adults. Let's trust that the little ones lead the other 'Big Folks' to where they really want to go.
KuzeN - I/we really do appreciate you and your creative and thoughtful responses. As I mentioned my SIL and the twins will be returning toward the end of January (when the two husbands attend a leadership seminar at church). I was thinking of mentioning to my SIL that Matt and I have a wedding to attend near Valentine's day (wedding and reception at the church) and maybe she and her husband could baby sit for us (and use the heated pool) - that would kind of give her the headsup and be an actual situation. I never would have thought of this - by the way Matt thinks his brother might be quite open as they have discussed our family's openness...who knows....thank so much and {{KuzeN}} from Matt and Sue - To all have a most blessed holiday! You have made our family feel great about being together nude...it really is all so natural...don't know why we waited.
Sue, That sounds perfect. I really appreciate "(...heated pool...)"
Young'un, you are wonderful. I am almost willing to bet that y'all will find two happy <<<G>>> adults when y'all get home. If the timing is appropriate, a propecious [??] event might occur. "The pool is still warm".
Sue, when you are at your 'secluded beach', conduct period checks of the brush or whatever is your cover. Unfortunately, there are men who lurk in the brush. Again, you may be being recorded. To these perps, recording not only your body or bodies but your kids is 'all in an afternoon's work".
If you have a male "neighbor[s]" sunbathing at some acceptable distance away, have Matt amble by. If there a tote bag or some such situated so that it's on your side of his little territory, there may indeed something in that tote bag capable of recording.
Unfortunately, single males are suspect because of the creepiness and evilness of some [not all] males. Just a heads up. If you don't believe me, do some research on 'upskirting'. Now, men with briefcases, tote bags, are scrutinized if they are too close to the woman ahead of them.
Sue, I know that I am a Cassandra always peering behind the sofa for a 'dust bunny'. As I said to Nudely Wed, I 'run my "cyber" mouth because I really love {{{ALL of You}}}. These are suggestions to y'all to adopt as they fit your situations.
With three little Bears, it's your and Matt's job to protect them. Y'all are very wonderful parents. Just trying to provide {{{everybody}}} some suggestions which may be useful. A lot of you are 'young nudist Christian lambs'. Don't want to let no wolf get any of y'all if it's possible for y'all to protect yourselves.
Sue, it's always good to think ahead! It was you who asked the important question. Next thing you know the doctor will be making house calls to enjoy the pool.
Bearone
