Dear Miss Little Bear,
1. You have a very healthy attitude about home nudism, and probably will about social nudism in the future. You must be very careful in the future.
When you think that you may have found the 'Right Guy', be very sure that you know how he really believes about nudism. You don't want one who thinks that all you have on ....... your mind ..... is sex. Hormones can outvote principle in a hurry!!!!
When you have a Christian picked as a posssible mate, who says that any and all forms of nudism are bad, hurry back and check in the LORD, sorta' along these lines::: 'Dear LORD, did I pick up the wrong blue print on the way out the front door? If so, please help me to pick up the correct one. YOU usually get it right, just might take me a little longer.'
2. You and your girlfriend have an exceptional relationship w/her Mom. If you feel strong enoungh in that relationship, have you thought of asking her to discuss your sunbathing w/your Mom?
That presupposes that your Mom wouldn't have a hissy and lock you up in a barrell until you're 25 years old. There may be a better than even chance that she'll be supportive of you and your friend. I'm basing this on her approving your sleeping nude and wearing only a robe when you exit your bedroom. You know her and the dynamics of your family.
Also, do either of you have access to a south facing room with windows? If so, can you 'squeeze' in some sun time? Think of lying on nice, fuzzy, warm colored beach towels in the afternoon sun in that room. Not as good as the 'Real Out of Doors', still is nicer than just looking at the snow, ice, frozen rain, etc., and so forth through the window.
3. I think that I made it clear before, but am not certain. The real reason for walking out into her backyard nude is anyone without authorized permission walking in will have already seen 'all of you there is to see'. DON'T hang around trying to get dressed.
You will be 'flustered'. Even if you only have a wrap, a sundress [you get the picture], you will have difficulty in dressing. If you have a bad guy of some sort, your 'self-imposed' delay works to his/their benefit. Even if he's just your best male friend from school/Church, he'll get to watch and view the 'goods' for longer.
4. What can 'we'[you two teens] do to help me and Miss Little Bear to be safer? Why! Maybe, my folks will get me a Yappie!! See my post to Miss Nudely Wed; them things are annoying. That is why they make great watch/doorbell dogs.
Miss Little Bear, I really do Love you [can see that Christian Grin all the way from your keyboard]. You are a wonderful young Lady.
Merry Christmas,
Grandpop Kuzen [I really am.]
P. S. Just trying to come up with suggestions for the maximum 'Tan Time' for you.
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