Since the original thread has moved to page 2, I wondered whether you had made any progress. Have you and your sister been able to discuss with your mother about having the freedom to go around the house nude?
Teen Guy - would love to hear from you. I can tell you talking to a parent and sharing your concerns and sometimes even offering a solution is the way to go.
Holly
Thanks to everyone for their responses and for not forgetting me. I haven't posted lately, but I've been here. My little sis and I have talked with our mom. She had to think for a couple of days. I told her about this site and she did visit the main page and a few articles. She doesn't want us nude when she is not home and that makes sense, but is willing to consider some "nude times" and "nude zones" (in our house). So I think that is good and so does my little sis. We will try to act responsibly and hopefully this will continue and maybe even increase. I am at lunch at school and need to go now. NG
You and Lil' Sis ARE responsible. You don't have to wonder 'What happens when Mom sees me or both of us nekkid at the same time?'. Now, you know. If either of you accidently slip out of the boundaries of your nude times and zones, she will remind you because she trusts you.
By staying in the Nude Zones and obeying the Nude Times, things will improve. As you and Lil Sis show responsility and trust in the freedoms that she's extended, she will be able to increase the freedoms that you and Lil Sis have earned.
You and Scott are very special young men. Your Mom can be proud of you. Lil sis was able to trust you and back you up. We're proud of you.
{{{{{Teen Guy and Lil Sis}}}}} Will Lil Sis be allowed to post here?? If not, would you be allowed to post any questions and/or comments that she might have?? there are five very special Young Ladies who could tackle any of her questions.
Teen Guy - you're looking good there. Not just because you may end up with the permission you wanted—though we'll celebrate with you if that happens.
No, the thing that really looks good is that you and your sister committed to handling this whole thing responsibly, being thoughtful of your mother's comfort. You're not just thinking of yourselves.
You've seen my admonitions, lectures, warnings, whatever you want to call them. Re-read them.
1. When it's just the two of you, STAY LOCKED IN!!!!! Call the Cops if you think that you need to. 'Two teens alone at home report a possible prowler'. The Gates of Hell couldn't stop the Cops. For all of the bad things that some Cops do, most of them have kids. In a situation like that, they are thinking, 'There, but for the Grace of GOD, are my kids'. With a false alarm, not a prank, you might a get a safety lecture.
2. When either or the both of you are nude, stay away from windows and any other places where you can be seen.
Along with safety, you have to protect 'Lil Sis's reputation'. If somebody sees your chest, normal male youth. So what? If her chest is seen by a boy church friend, schoolmate, etc., it will be broadcast ASAP!!
Then,
A. Her reputation can AND will be, damaged.
B. It gets back to Mom in the worst possible light. For example, a 'Guardian of Church Morals', without inquring but 'knowing all of the facts', slams Mom with 'Do you know what your daughter is doing?? She is NAKED and showing off in her window so that ALL of the children SEE her'. Not a bit of truth there except someone thought he caught a glimps of a happily nude 'Lil Sis' obeying Mom's rules. Inuendo and gossip need very little to get started and nothing more to stay around.
I shared with Dr. Sherri that you teens and adults surely get tired of my posting "this" 'all of the time'. I would rather irritate you and know that you're taking the best safety precautions possible, than to never read in some local newspaper something like the following. 'Naked bodies of brother and sister found in '.... [location]'. Both sexually assaulted.' In that case, this cyber family would never meet and know all of you.
Each one of you, especially, you teens, bring different gifts to this family. Preachers, doesn't the GOOD BOOK talk about various gifts in the Body?
