Hi All:

I have a prayer request- a chicken will be fly tomorrow----

I will be traveling to Kenosa Wi,to visit with a gentleman christian nudist. He came here and visited me. We had a lot of fun together and practiced good nudity and NO KISSING. I will be fly(little Chicken, me)tomorrow at 11:10 am. I am very excited to see him again. I will return on the 10th of July. Please pray for a safe trip and good fellowship time. And ok No Kissing cause we know where that leads too?

Thanks so much.
Spunky

You got it Spunky Lady. Hope your visit is a good one. Traveling mercies to you.

nakedspirit

I'll be praying for you!

I have to know, though... is kissing bad? I've only kissed one guy in my life and I HATED it- yuck! But that doesn't mean it's immoral or that I'd have the same experience with other guys. I'm with a guy now who I would certainly allow to kiss me if he offered, though he hasn't (yet.) Is that bad?

Melissa

Hi Melissa:

No Kissing its bad- Its Great! To me its an emotional levelage/meaning. It is also a form of foreplay. Kissing from the forehead to the toe can be very fun if your husband and wife. I have know some people who dated and didn't kiss until they said: "I Do".

Because of my personal dating past Kissing is a tempting tool. Also because we are open nudist. He went to blow over my tummy and I said: NO...

What do you all think? I am still a new nudist.

Spunky

It's important for each person to decide what they consider to be right, and to live in such a way that they can feel good about themselves. I'm not sure whether it's any more important for Christians to do this, but it certainly isn't less important.

Kissing is wonderful, but I think it does have different meanings at different stages of life. It also has different meanings for different people at each stage of life. The setting is important also: a quick kiss at the mall is one thing; a lingering kiss in someone's bedroom is something else. In naturist terms a little peck at the nude beach is not the same thing as kisses exchanged between two people who are in the privacy of a home and who are already naked.

Kissing is wonderful, and part of that wonderfulness is that it is a powerful expression of sexuality. For two teens who have never shared a kiss with anyone else, the first kiss is typically the end goal in itself; it doesn't lead to regrets in the morning. For mature adults who have shared their lives more fully with others kissing can easily and quickly become foreplay.

My wife and I never kissed until we were agreed that we would married. I don't recommend that to anyone else, and certainly don't hold it up as a standard. It's just that I knew my own weakness, and kissing too early would have taken me further than would have been appropriate. If anyone wants to know more about the circumstances that prompted that decision, they can email me.

So I understand both Spunky Lady and Mellisastar, and I support both. I also will be glad if each comes soon to the time and place that kissing is "just right." In the meantime I'm glad for the responsible decisions that both are making.

THANK YOU and well said!

You are right, it is too tempting, especially when you are already nude. You may want to keep most of your nude dates to the resorts, in company and as little of it at the house as much as possible.

This is where others may take your good nudity and make evil out of it. This is the moment in life where we follow what the bible says about not doing things that may appear evil to others and cause stumbling blocks. Keep in mind, Christ first.

Though my wife and I were not nudists at the time (I was still privately practicing but not knowing I was a "naturist"), when we were dating, she kept me at bay! And it was tempting even then. We didn't even kiss until way after she accepted my proposal for marriage! She was determined to not let anything get in the way! We did start the kissing thing, but again, we were VERY careful.....OK, SHE was very careful!

May God bless you and keep you (in flight AND on the ground!).

Boyd "A little flight of fancy" Allen

I know how some people hate to fly, me included. Will certainly be praying for you. Not only that you have a safe flight but that you have a great visit. Wally

Have a good trip.

My wife and it certainly had no problem with kissing before the wedding. Never could get her interested in French kissing though.

Ralph
The naked gardener
God's original intent