Hi! Someone here said that I should write something. I am the totally tanned teen or Liz - I really, very much like being a totally tanned teen. So I am and my mother has checked it so it is ok. I am 14 years old & have a little sis 11, but I guess you know all that. My friend and I went to the local nude beach 4 times. I didn’t think it was wrong or anything, it was just something me and my friend talked about and wanted to do. We wanted to see what it was like and to see other people and to be seen. When we finally got there the first time we were ready to go to the other beach but we didn’t. As my mom told you we just took off our tops and layed face down the whole time, but for me it got better each time. I really, really do like being nude and the feel of the warm sun on my entire body especially the parts in the front that don’t usually get tanned. I used to like to see a tan line but not anymore. My mom told you about the parts that got real dark and I really like that look. I a really, really, really liked swimming nude. I hope I can go back soon with my parents I would really like to body surf nude no more fixing my bathing suit and all that wet sand inside the suit too. I think I would feel very safe if my parents were there and would enjoy it more. My parents have talked to me and I now know that what I did could have been dangerous and was not good for a girl my age but I just didn’t think about some of things they talked to me about. What is good is that my mom and dad are open. Like letting me sleep nude I started this as a dare in the 5th grade and really liked it. There are some nude things we can do at home and some topless things too. I think my mom and dad are thinking about checking out the nude beach and I hope they like it like I did and that we can get to go some times together this summer because I really like the feeling.
I'm the guy who 'rains on the parade'. It's a whole lot better to get wet and have your parade another day than to have something terrible happen. As I told your Mom, bad guys don't look like bad guys and don't carry big signs that say 'I'm a bad guy'.
You are very fortunate in that your Parents are willing to listen to you. That means that they trust you and that YOU TRUST THEM TO TRUST YOU. That is a rare mix. As of right now, let them lead about the Nude Beach.
You are to be commended for not trying to bluff your way out of it when Mom got an 'eyeful of her new and improved tan teen'.
Liz, Mom bragged on you. At a leggy 5' 7", you are beautiful. Go back to my earlier response to your Mom. Vary, vary, and vary your habits - Ex: I leave at 9 A. M. and go to the Mall and hang out. I get home at 4:45 P. M. This is a schedule. If someone puts you and the Nude Beach together, 'She is a ... [you fill in the term]'.
Tracking you and your Little Sister is very easy. When you are at home, keep the doors and windows locked. Do not go near a window where the view is fully blocked.
Miss Liz, you are a wonderful Young Lady. You are a special example for Miss Pre-Teen.
I do thank you for your answer and for your answer to my parents. I do need to learn to be a bit more careful I guess living here in the suburbs it is easy to forget and then it is too late. Yes, I am leggy - sometimes it seems as if my legs won't quit and I probably look like a flamingo or someother bird with long skinny legs but its okay thats me! I will try to let my parents lead on going to the nude beach but it is hard since I really really want to go again and with them and get in some nude body surfing I think they would really like it and I also think my little sister would also really like it. Till next time, "Liz"
You are very, very welcome for any useful advice imparted.
Letting your Parents lead is a bit of a drag. However, I suspect that if their experience is the half that their older daughter's experiences have been, it may only take one trip before this is a regular family event. Refer to posts by Barbie and Ken. Miss-14, when you have a daughter, you will understand their caution. Contrary to popular opinion, there is only one of you [thinking in terms of multiples]. No child can ever be replaced.
Who knows, you and your Parents might meet another Family similar to yours. You might be close enough for your Families to visit. Now, wouldn't that be a nice return for sharing the truth with Mom about where you had been?
You are secure in your sense of self, for example, your description of being a long leggy young lady. Such is a rare gift.
Miss Liz, go back to about this past Oct. Look at posts by teens, especially Jen, AKA Nude Teen. These young people have worked through many of the same questions that you have.
You may not know, a way to show friendship, love, etc., is through hugs { }. The more the number, the more important is the greeting.
Therefore, {{{Liz, a wonderful credit to Mom and Dad}}}
KuzeN
P. S. You and your Family need to 'stay with us'. This helps all of us grow.
I'm glad you stopped by. It's good to hear from you! Your mom has had nothing but good to say about you. I hope it's all true.
I had this thing running around in my mind that I was going to write your mom about, but I'll give you the short version.
I hope this dosn't embarass you, but your mom wrote about helping you "trim". One of the other girls who post here, a young lady named Jen (just about your age), said her mom helped her the same way. I told her how wonderful it was that her and her mom were close enough that they could do that. I have to tell you the same thing.
I am so glad to hear that you are so close. I used to teach Sunday School, and saw too many teens pull away from their parents when they got about your age. Please, PLEASE, don't. Your parents are your best friends and greatest allies. Your honesty about how you got your tan shows that you trust them. Do whatever it taked to keep that trust. Just talk to them. They seem to be very willing to listen.
There aren't very many parents, I think, who would respond so well to the news you gave them. And now look what's happened! Topless, and even nude sometimes. Somebody else said that those nude times may increase, if you want them to. If you want to, fine, but don't if you don't want to. Just let your family know how you feel, and I think they will be cool with whatever you decide (but it sounds like you enjoy being nude ).
So you like not having tan lines anymore, huh? I agree that a light all-over tan looks good. My wife and I go to a nudist resort, and she has even commented about how attractive the kids look tanned, instead of pasty white loke I was at your age. I think it just looks healthy and natural.
Anyway, sorry to ramble so much. Ignore all that other stuff if you want. This is the important part: Welcome!!
Seriously, we all enjoy to hear from you, so don't leave us alone now that you're here.
Keep up the good work, young Lady. You've started something that looks like your entire family can enjoy. Now it's time to let Mom and Dad lead for a while. Don't worry, this will only bring you all closer.
Thanks for that great post. We have other teens that post here, though I'm not sure how much they're following progress here now that school is out. The others express themselves well and with insight that encourages us all. Your first post shows that you'll fit right in with them!
Like others I'm so glad that you were comfortable enough with yourself and your Mom that you were able just to tell her truth about your tan. That couldn't happen in some homes; I'm glad it does in yours. You're off to a great start.
Keep us posted about how it goes for you and your family. We love to hear from teens. And, yes, some of us even pray for you and your family.
Dear Liz, I have been away for awile on a little vacation with my parents. I will tell everyone here about this in a little wile. I am your age and did some things last fall that weren't too smart but I didn't now that they weren't too smart and some of the people here who are so very nice and safe helped me and then I talked to my parents. Then the people here helped me with an idear on how to be naked with my parents and I wasn't sure it would work but it really did and it has been really great ever since. Did you see how much we both use the word really we both really do. I have also meet some really nice teens here and one very special boy and we have seen each other two times. What I wnated to say was that I am glad you posted here and that if you do what your mother and father say and yet let them now how you feel I think it will work out like it did for better so much better than I ever thought. I really like the feeling to being naked as you do. Aslo about the shaving I have decided to wait until I am older but my mom helps me so I don't look like an alfafa salad especially when I ware shorts and I kind of like the way it looks right now my dirty blond hair everywhere has gotten very much lighter and for the first time I too have very dark tips on my breasts and its kinda neat. Aslo you said your legs just won't quite well my just won't grow but I am happy with who I am and what I look like cause we both now it is what isnide that counts well Ive talked too much but so glad you are here, {{{Liz}}} luv, Jen
Just immagine, only a year ago, you and your family were new here and were needing advise, now suddenly, you are the experienced one and are ready to reach out and help one of your peers.
That, ladies and gents, is how Christianity works! And it doesn't take long. Just a desire to serve, love and reach out. It doesn't take years of education or experience, just getting involved and sharing.
It won't be long before our new friends here will be jumping in and helping yet another new teen and family. Keep up the great work!
Thank you Jen,
May God bless you and your family,
Boyd "I feel very blessed having you all here" Allen
But I did respond earlier, and then something happened to my pc momentarily that threw me off.
So I'll try again.
Glad to have you on board here, and we hope you continue following your parents. I know they are doing their best to keep you safe. Of course, by now, I am repeating everyone else, but you hang in there and be patient!
At least you got a tan! I still haven't been out in the sun and fun in a couple of years, and I am looking like casper the ghost right now!
Being a teen with parents that are supportive is not what I had.
I started when I was around 13, but I snuck around a lot and did not let my parents know what I was doing. I didn't know of "naturism", only that I like being nude when I get a chance. (Only at home, in the woods, or by myself, not in public) But I always felt like I was doing something wrong because I always had negativity in my life. Many times I would sneak out at night time. We mostly lived in "the country" more or less. Over the years, I had to deal with my "nude excersions" and hope I didn't get caught because I would not know how to explain it. All I could do is say "I'm sorry, I won't do it again" had anyone caught me. Very low self esteam.
But when I was at a book store when I was around 35, I found a book on Family Naturism (you can find it at AANR or TNS book sales). I was extatic and thought that this was the most wonderful thing I found! I was literally shaking! I couldn't buy the book, but I did go back and read it some more. Then I found Nude and Natural Magazine, N as it is called, by TNS. I then found out about naturism throughout the country and the state. As I eventually got online, I was able to look up naturism (found good and bad stuff) and ran across Christian Naturism!
So that got me started in reading the bible about it, and I had so much information and excitement going through my head that I had to write it down. That was the beginning of my website about a year later.
My wife and I went to Bar-S-Ranch for our first outing in naturism. I have never felt so much freedom in my life! But I was in my late 30's by then!
So you must be patient! I had to wait for over 20 years for my understanding, you have a chance to start as a teen, and start it right! This is your finest hour (so far...you will have more) and your parents are supporting you! Something I would not have had.
Keep up with the board here, and let your parents be what they do best, love you and protect you and be the best parents you have!
Live Nude and Prosper our young padawan! (OK, two different shows)
I will try to let my parents lead on going to the nude beach but it is hard since I really really want to go again and with them and get in some nude body surfing I think they would really like it and I also think my little sister would also really like it. Till next time, "Liz"