First of all, welcome aboard! Glad you got the nerve to speak up here.
You mentioned a problem with your "reluctant spouse" (to say the least). We have that a lot here. Sometimes its the women hollering "help". So you are not alone.
Jan (www.netnude.com) has a section for reluctant spouses and so does Cheri Alexander (www.travelites.com)
Cheri is full of wisdom and help for women who are reluctant. Of course, there are people here as well.
I will hope many will come to your aid. In the mean time, keep reading, keep the faith. Be patient, show love and compansion. Be as Christ to her at all times. Take advantage of any "alone" time you have.
I also hope you have read some of my articles (links at top of main page) at
http://www.geocities.com/boydallen
Again, a big welcome and may God bless.
Our new prayer for this Forum is:
"May the Lord protect our nudity from the site of those who will not benefit, and may he allow us to be seen by those who will."
Boyd "Live Nude and Prosper" Allen