Hi.

For 12 years i do skinny dipping, on my own,with nobody around,in a lake about 11 a 15 miles from home,
since 2004 i have found your website and i have study it very good and also have i visited
http://www.oursunhome.com/index.htm
http://members.tripod.com/~nakedspirit/ a very good site
and http://www.rejectshame.com/ with i read this sunday for more then 2 hours.
All this sites together with your site and my own experienes including a first shower with other guys what i didnt dare before because of shame for my own body in 1978 after becoming a christian ,i see this of a act of God,
convined me that our body as a whole and in itself is good and being nude in certain situations for example swimming is good and not a sin.

This sunday i have swim nude for the 3rd time fore the last two weeks, aug 5 thirst time monday 6 second time and this sunday 3rd time and i like it very much and i see it realy as a gift from God.

now my question;I know a married couple who are very good friends of mine, and i want to go swimming with this couple in the lake,(you can swim there out of sight for there are many threes around), and want to swim nude,i think that i ask them to swim and if we are swimming to ask them if i be allowed to swim in the nude.

the couple do i know for about 7 years we have a good relationship and if i come to their home sometimes their children (a boy 5 years and a girl 2 years) are being nude in the house,not always but by occasion mainly in the summer,and thats no problem.

This is what i wanted to do;
1. Ask them to go for a swimming without the children.
2. If we been there,and in the water,telling them that i,ve been swimming in
the nude for several times.
3. Ask them to be allowed to put out my swimming trunks.
4. getting a yes from both,my friend and his wife.
5. waitnig that my freind getting his trunks off,then i will follow.
6. or getting nude with permission but without my friend doing the same.
i prefer that i follow my friend,but i dont know if he will do it

I ask myself how his wife will react,she will not necessely disapprove,but i dont know if she allow me to do so 60% yes 20% dont know 20% no.

should i tell them that i want to swim nude if we allready in the water
or should i teel them before, the couple are as far i know not naturists,and i are a christian who swim by occasion in the nude, not call myself a naturist but the practice is maybe the same.

Please reactions

FreedomFinder

Freedom Finder,

Seems you are looking at every scenario you can find, and chances are, none of them will come out. The only thing I can advise you with is talk to your friends. If they are good friends, they may have no problem with you going nude or at least understand your preferences.

Maybe their kids are comfortable with going nude because their parents are when you are not around. So they may be clothed thinking that you would prefer it that way.

So talk to them about it. Don't lure them to a swimming hole then bring it up. Let them know about your new found freedom but not by "asking their permission" to be a nudist. Let them know and then they may let you be nude at the ol' swimmin' hole.

Now you DO have to ask their permission to be nude around them, especially if their kids are around. But first, talk to them since you apparently are very good friends with them.

I hope others here will add to this.



Boyd Allen
"May the Lord protect our nudity from the sight of those who will not benefit, and may he allow us to be seen by those who will."