..then take a deep breath. I didn't say it was boring, but for you to come on and right off the bat say "Assuming that no one here will take a powder, get huffy, or think that you are beating up on THEM?", it would seem you aren't getting anyone to fight with you elsewhere, so you came here looking for one?
I see in your new posts this morning you have regained your composure, and asked a much more civil question then the way it was presented last night.