These are seriously cool shots.
The available light ones of yourself with the long exposure are brilliantly moody, you look like a gangster in a jazz club, chillin' between killin's. They're the sort of atmospheric shots that should have been in the artwork for BTWN. The flash shots of your missus are brilliant too, but in a completely different way, the lighting is so even with no hotspots, almost like you used ringf-lash or studio lighting. So vivid and punchy. Really good work there!
I also like the B/W glowing cocktail shots with the motion blur. I guess you must have edited them in Picasa to desaturate them.
You sure you're not a photographer?
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