Just checking in....
I really learned something valuable from you all very quickly...Time is the key & letting my H vent as he needs is what I need to do.
Things have been quiet here....thankfully.
H told me he felt we reached rock bottom & there was no way else to go but up now.
He said we are on the same team working togther & verified I wanted to be on "his team"
He did something really stupid that I was angry about but he said he had to be honest & tell me about it (2 weeks after he did it) I did not go to our therapy last week, he went alone & the counselor didn't seem to have much to say about his little "boo boo" ...we go tonight so I want to iron that one out...

Other than that...working slowly & steadily on earnign back his love & trust....one day at a time!
Thanks,
Healing

<<...working slowly & steadily on earnign back his love & trust....one day at a time!>>

Sounds like the two of you are on the right path


~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha