I just got off the phone with Ohio, we had a two hour talk concerning what has happened in the past year. I asked him some questions about C (his former fiancee) and why he did the things he did last year. I finally got some closure and answers that I have needed for so long. He knows that I don't trust him, especially after what he did to me and the kids but he was cooperative in answering my questions, even though they were questions that clearly made him uncomfortable in answering. We discussed the kids and we both agreed to do what is best for them, though I still don't know about this marriage. I like his fiancee and she is very nice, she is an involved mother who understands my concerns with my children, she is not trying to take over and elbow her way into the scene. She knows that I will always be a part of Ohio's life because of our children and she is accepting of that. This is the first time that I have felt Ohio has been truly honest with me in a very, very long time. He knows I have a long road before I will trust him, IF I can ever trust him again, but he willing to prove his honesty to me. So, I think that this is a major breakthrough towards healing our relationship, making it a more amicable one with each other.

DH

(((((((((((((((((DH)))))))))))))))))...I am so happy for you, and for the children. I hope he continues to be honest with you. Even though your M is over, you do need to get along for the kids and him being honest and answering your questions will only facilitate that and foster "better feelings" between the two of you and healing

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha