In one of our discussions about R vs D, my husband was saying to me that it doesn't matter if I was suspicious, and that I thought he was meeting another lady while I was out of town last month, that I wasn't providing him with sex at this point so why would it be worth it for him to R, if I wasn't giving him what he wanted....I told him that he needed to earn my trust and respect back, before sex would happen, and that one of my needs is for us to compromise on things that we don't fully agree on, that I don't like feeling controlled, guilted or manipulated into doing the things that he wants....I want to tell him to get out, see if separation helps, but he hasn't been working for the last 3 mos ( due to health probs, the Docs still don't know what is wrong with him)...If I decided to file for D now, and tell him to leave, would I be required to support him while he wasn't working? He may take advantage of this situation of not having a steady income, and I can't afford to support him in his own place .... Advice needed

No advice ...but I do know that some lawyers do a free consultation.. about divorce..Lisa ( small town girl who posted here and still reads I think.. but on single healing may be able to answer that question.. post the question on single healing..

So sorry that your H doesn't understand what you need.

((((hugs))))

Pat




"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."

Im so sorry you are going through all of this STILL! I dont know anything about spousal support...you'd have to talk to a lawyer.

Try this link...it may helps some.

http://family-law.freeadvice.com/spousal_support/


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~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha