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O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 13 2008 at 5:39 PM
  (Login Len6445)
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Healing Heart Family--

Denise (deedeemommy) just informed us in chat that her oldest brother, Gene, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly today (Tuesday May 13) at age 46.

Please keep Denise and her family in your thoughts and prayers at this time.

Len

 
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El
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((((((((((((DEE))))))))))))

May 13 2008, 6:35 PM 

I am so sorry. I know you have often spoken of your brothers with so much love. This is a tragic loss and my heart breaks for you. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Much love,
El

 
 

JJ
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Re: O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 13 2008, 8:05 PM 

((((Denise))))) I am so sorry for your pain. I have three brothers and the thought of losing any one of them hurts to the core.

My thoughts are with you.

JJ

 
 

fairyfriend
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May 13 2008, 8:08 PM 

Dee,

My youngest brother died in 1994 when he was 24 (suicide), and my oldest brother died less than a year later when he was 42--almost 43 (pulmonary thrombosis). I understand how much it hurts to lose a brother. My heart cries out for you.

Huge, comforting fairy hugs,

fairyfriend

Edited because I can't subtract


    
This message has been edited by fairyfriend on May 13, 2008 11:51 PM


 
 
pat
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Re: O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 13 2008, 8:40 PM 

Dee,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers..

My heart goes out to your parents.

Love,

Pat



"Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time."

 
 

Anonymous
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May 13 2008, 8:52 PM 

((((Dee))))
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Lisa

 
 

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Re: O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 13 2008, 9:39 PM 

((((((((((((((((((((((((Dee)))))))))))))))))...I am so sorry to hear about your loss Sweetie. You and your family are in my prayers.

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

 
 
Mike
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May 13 2008, 9:54 PM 

Denise,

I'm really sorry. Please know you'll be in our prayers. (SB and me) You know how to reach me if you feel like talking.

Thanks Len...for letting us know.

 
 
Ami
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May 13 2008, 10:00 PM 

(((((DEE))))))

Oh my gosh. I am so sorry for your loss.

Your family and you will be in my thoughts.

Ami


 
 

Kid
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Re: O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 14 2008, 5:56 AM 

My thoughts and prayers are with you Dee. I'm so sorry.

 
 
Sunflower
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May 14 2008, 11:31 AM 

Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. Seeing what my H went through last fall when he lost his brother, it hurts my heart to know that you are feeling a similar pain right now. I'm so sorry sweetie. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sun

 
 
DH
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Sad news

May 14 2008, 12:31 PM 

Denise,

I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I know that it is a shock to you and your family. I wish you well as you go through this time of mourning. You and your children are in my thoughts.

Take care, sweetie,

DH

 
 
Susan
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May 14 2008, 1:03 PM 

I am so sorry, Denise. So,so sad to lose a brother and so especially sad when he is so young. I can't even imagine how hard this is for you. My thoughts are with you.

 
 
Diane
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prayers

May 14 2008, 4:27 PM 

DEar Denise,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you at this sad time.
Diane

 
 

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So Sorry

May 14 2008, 9:21 PM 

((((HUGS))))

I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. Losing a loved one is hard but losing one so unexpectedly is so doubly hard.

Prayers are with you.

Nycolette




 
 
Anonymous
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May 15 2008, 9:12 AM 

Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.
It has been an unbelievable few days and only going to get more difficult.
He was a firefighter in the same town for almost 30 years and knew an incredible amount of people. We found out late yesterday that he died from a massive heart attack. He leaves behind an estranged wife and 21 yr old daughter.
I have one other brother in IL and the other two traveling in from out of state. Yes, I am the only girl...#4 out of 5 - he was the oldest.
My parents are numb.
Len & Chris, I am still barely breathing...I can't thank you two enough for being in chat with me at that time...you two were my lifeline.
I am hugging all of you - and feeling the hugs from you all.
It will be a full firemans funeral-that is how he'd want it to be.

Denise

"Our lives begin to end when we become silent about things"

 
 
Ami
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May 15 2008, 10:39 AM 

Dee,

My husbands Uncle was a captain with the fire department here. He had the full firemen's funeral. They are very nice. It is something for the whole family to be proud of and take comfort in the wonderful work he did.

(((HUGS)))

Ami


 
 

Anonymous
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May 15 2008, 11:59 AM 

(((((((((((((((((((Dee))))))))))))))))))...I know how painful it is to suddenly lose a sibling. I am glad you have an answer as to why, and may it answer some of your questions but I know it does not ease the pain. I am so, so sorry. You have my deepest sympathy...my heart goes out to you Sweetie.

You and your family remain in my prayers.

~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha

 
 

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((DEE)))))))))

May 16 2008, 1:06 AM 

My thoughts and prayers to you and yours sweet one... I am so sorry for your troubles.

LOVE.

H.

 
 

Kid
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May 16 2008, 6:55 AM 

That's how my dad died, of a massive heart attack. It's certainly easier on the person who passes, but I think it is alot harder on the family since it usually is so unexpected.

Sending you big hugs from Canada
(((((dee))))) hang in there sis.

Kid

 
 
Len
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May 16 2008, 9:06 AM 

To All,

Here is a link to an obituary which appeared in the Chicago Sun-Times. It appears that Denise's brother was not just your average firefighter.

http://www.suntimes.com/news/obituaries/953824,CST-NWS-xmarch16.article

 
 
MIchelle
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((((((((((((Denise)))))))))))))

May 16 2008, 10:19 AM 

Words seem pretty empty right now, or don't convey what I want them to convey to you. Know that I love you, and that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 
 
Ami
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May 16 2008, 10:41 AM 

Dee,

Your brother had some outstanding accomplishments. He gave everyone reason to be proud.

((((HUGS)))

Ami


 
 
Lynda M
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May 17 2008, 12:35 AM 

My heart goes out to you. Your brother was truly hero.

Lynda

 
 
Anonymous
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May 17 2008, 9:48 AM 

Dee will be thinking about you today.. sending you lots of strength to support all that will be looking for your strength today.

(((hugs)))

Pat

 
 

peanut
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Re: O/T Sad News - Prayers Wanted

May 19 2008, 12:00 AM 

My thoughts and prayers are with you Denise. Wishing you strength and peace.

Hugs

Peanut

We help ourselves when we help others

 
 
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