I am so sorry. I know you have often spoken of your brothers with so much love. This is a tragic loss and my heart breaks for you. I will keep your family in my prayers.
My youngest brother died in 1994 when he was 24 (suicide), and my oldest brother died less than a year later when he was 42--almost 43 (pulmonary thrombosis). I understand how much it hurts to lose a brother. My heart cries out for you.
Huge, comforting fairy hugs,
fairyfriend
Edited because I can't subtract
This message has been edited by fairyfriend on May 13, 2008 11:51 PM
Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. Seeing what my H went through last fall when he lost his brother, it hurts my heart to know that you are feeling a similar pain right now. I'm so sorry sweetie. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Sun
I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I know that it is a shock to you and your family. I wish you well as you go through this time of mourning. You and your children are in my thoughts.
I am so sorry, Denise. So,so sad to lose a brother and so especially sad when he is so young. I can't even imagine how hard this is for you. My thoughts are with you.
Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.
It has been an unbelievable few days and only going to get more difficult.
He was a firefighter in the same town for almost 30 years and knew an incredible amount of people. We found out late yesterday that he died from a massive heart attack. He leaves behind an estranged wife and 21 yr old daughter.
I have one other brother in IL and the other two traveling in from out of state. Yes, I am the only girl...#4 out of 5 - he was the oldest.
My parents are numb.
Len & Chris, I am still barely breathing...I can't thank you two enough for being in chat with me at that time...you two were my lifeline.
I am hugging all of you - and feeling the hugs from you all.
It will be a full firemans funeral-that is how he'd want it to be.
Denise
"Our lives begin to end when we become silent about things"
My husbands Uncle was a captain with the fire department here. He had the full firemen's funeral. They are very nice. It is something for the whole family to be proud of and take comfort in the wonderful work he did.
(((((((((((((((((((Dee))))))))))))))))))...I know how painful it is to suddenly lose a sibling. I am glad you have an answer as to why, and may it answer some of your questions but I know it does not ease the pain. I am so, so sorry. You have my deepest sympathy...my heart goes out to you Sweetie.
You and your family remain in my prayers.
~ CAL
"You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection" ~ Buddha
That's how my dad died, of a massive heart attack. It's certainly easier on the person who passes, but I think it is alot harder on the family since it usually is so unexpected.
Sending you big hugs from Canada
(((((dee))))) hang in there sis.
Words seem pretty empty right now, or don't convey what I want them to convey to you. Know that I love you, and that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.