Good luck pal. I have 3 and a grandchild due in September. I'm 46. First off, that's the singular greatest and most useful of Murf's posts on this board EVER. He is as right as rain.
My advice would be this: There are GOING to be times that are a combination of exhaustion, frustration, pity, pain, and what you will perceive as failures. Work hard to understand what lesson life or parenthood is presenting, instead of resenting or blaming each other for the change or the result. Nobody could possibly know what parenthood has to teach in advance. Live in the now. Appreciate every moment. Don't sleep in. And may the force be with you.
Mikey is cleverer than you think.
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