Rest assured my large-muscled friend, I totally understand where you're coming from with respect to posting pics here or anywhere else in the Internet. Even though I would LOVE to see some pics of you flexing, I know its not going to happen and I'm fine with that... I'd rather have a picture-less Erica than no Erica at all.
As for bumping into one another at some point, I'd like to think I could pick you out even without knowing your face. There aren't many women that share your proportions, so that "might" make you easy to identify... then again, bulky clothing can conceal quite a bit. It sure would suck to encounter you and not even realize it... lol