Cynthia, I really appreciate your wonderful advice
by JennyL (no login)
and found it to be quite helpful. I will check out your post and the site you recommended. I think attending a RESOLVE meeting is a great idea, I hadn't thought about that. I wish he would spend more time talking to "older" dads, but it's as though he's scared of what they may say. He is really afraid of being a older dad, of being 75 and taking his kid to college. I need to consider his feelings, but on the other hand, I can't imagine NOT being a mom...and would get such a thrill from adopting our child.