I am truly hoping the birth grandmother just had a case of "open mouth insert foot"
by Faith (no login)
and really didn't mean the comment the way it sounded. You almost (I did say ALMOST) have to chuckle. She probably thought about what she said 2 seconds later and thought, "I can't believe I just said that." But I am sorry it hurt you.
I am so glad Littles is doing well in the NICU. I hope you begin to heal as well.