for all the info. I was right about MA I told my DH last night that I didn't think trying to adopt in state was a good idea since there are probably very few babies up for adoption. Wow I'm definetely checking into the place yo used in Oklahoma. $500 to be put on a list that's awesome. Most of the places I've seen were $5000 plus I like the 3 day wait period. My biggest fear was adopting bringing the baby home and a month later having to give it back. Thanks also for the email offer I'm sure I'll be using it. We just had a failed DE cycle and are going to do a 2nd cycle and figured we'd pursue adoption at the same time in case it doesn't work but I figured even if it does if possible I would still like to press forward with adoption since we want more than one child.