Hi! I wish I could help answer your question but it is so specific (plus I am doing a domestic adoption). YOu might want to ask a larger group of women. There is another adoption board that is VERY fast and busy and includes parents who are going international as well as domestic. They might be able to help. But I hope you will continue to post here too. We are small but very supportive... Anyway, here is the link to the other board: