You are right, it IS hard to put one of those together. My DH and I met late in life (just married 4 years now) but fortunately we were both able to avoid Internet dating. I have lots of friends who have to post profiles on Match.com, etc. And they never tell family and friends to go have a look at their profile. That was the hardest thing for me to get used to: having our life laid out like that and sending out the link to everyone and linking to so many other sites, etc. DH and I are both pretty reserved... Anyway, glad we did it since it turned out to be the most effective tool and it brought us our potential birthmom, whom we will meet in person tomorrow!!!!