Thanks for posting this, {{{{{{{{Lil}}}}}}}}! I posted a hug thread for you {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Kendaa}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} over at Mary D's...I know you don't go there much, but wanted you to know we're thinking of you, and you and your family are in our prayers!!! Very sorry for your loss!!!
much love and warm hugs,
Sapph
Peanit1
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June 4 2001, 1:13 PM
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My deepest sympathy.
Peanit1
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June 4 2001, 1:50 PM
Oh, honey! I'm soooo soooo sorry. You have my email and ICQ. If you need to talk, please don't hesitate to use them.
Zoni
Shamba
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June 4 2001, 2:32 PM
I'm so sorry, my dea {{{{Kendaa}}}. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Re:
June 4 2001, 2:44 PM
I'm awful sorry to have bumped into Kendaa this way.
She has my sympathies and I'll keep a good thought for her.
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June 4 2001, 3:03 PM
OH no...
So sorry to hear this {{Kendaa}}
jo
Eeyoraus
again
June 4 2001, 3:40 PM
I'm so sorry!
E!
Spectacles
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June 4 2001, 3:49 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this, Kendaa.
Take care,
Specs
~Wikewike
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June 4 2001, 5:19 PM
Chin up my friend. You know we love ya'!
Zantog
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June 4 2001, 5:28 PM
I will be keeping you in
thoughts and prayers
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Zantog
PenDragon
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June 4 2001, 5:32 PM
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Deina
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June 4 2001, 5:37 PM
So sorry to hear about your father passing away. You and your family will be in my prayers. God bless you and your family. I pray that He will give you the strength and courage to deal with this very difficult time. Keep your father's memory alive in your heart, and he'll always be with you. I'm sure your father is in paradise with God, and is watching over you and your family.
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"...Be strong and of good courage;
do not be afraid, nor be dismayed,
for the Lord your God is with you
wherever you go."
Joshua 1:9 (NKJV)
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Love, Peace and God bless,
Deina
Oh, dear.
June 4 2001, 6:37 PM
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Castalia
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June 4 2001, 6:55 PM
So sorry to hear of your loss. I'll be keeping you in my prayers. Take care, my friend.
Cas
My sympathies
June 4 2001, 7:25 PM
Thank you Lil,
for letting us know. Dear Kendaa my heart goes out to you and your family tonight with the loss of your father. I lost my father almost 12 years ago and still miss him. Know that he will remain in your heart and memories for ever.
Kate
Kat
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June 4 2001, 7:39 PM
So sorry to hear of your loss. He will always live in in your heart through your memories of the time you spent together. My deepest sympathy to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kat
fayee
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June 5 2001, 1:48 AM
What can I say hon? I feel so much for you and we'll all be there for you Friday ((((Kendaa))))
big warm juicy hugs
fayee
Alura
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June 5 2001, 8:38 AM
My dearest Kendaa, you have my most heartfelt sympathies. {{{{{{{{{{{{Kendaa}}}}}}}}}}
love,
Alura
Whisper
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June 5 2001, 8:58 AM
I can't tell you how sorry I am. What a horrible shock. I only wish we could be THERE for you.
Please know that we all love, and we will be here for you, to help you and to support you, in any ways that we can. When your heart hurts, so do ours.
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Shhh,
Whisper
Sorry to hear of your loss...
June 5 2001, 12:49 PM
{{{{{{{{Kendaa}}}}}}}}} My thoughts are with you now and always.
Take care,
Mai
Helle
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June 5 2001, 1:57 PM
Hon, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please give a yell if you need anything.
Jessi
Just wanted to add my prayers for you and your familiy.
June 5 2001, 3:07 PM
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I'm so sorry about the loss of your father. I pray that God will give you and your family peace and strength in this time of sorrow.
Love and hugs,
Jessi
Lessa
I'm just glad that...
June 5 2001, 5:37 PM
I'm just glad that you and your father were able to find each other again, and with the help of June to grow close.
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
<<<<<<<<<<< Kendi >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Lessa
Shoshana
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June 5 2001, 7:57 PM
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'shana
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June 5 2001, 11:57 PM
My heart felt condolences on the loss of your father.
Many hugs,
Circe.
Kendaa
Thanks everyone
June 6 2001, 1:32 AM
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First of all, I want to apologise to everyone who has emailed and I haven't answered yet. It might be a while before I get around to that, but I want you all to know how much your words and prayers and hugs are appreciated. So far it's been a pretty gruelling marathon, starting with Monday and going to dad's place after I heard. I'm the only surviving close relative, so I have to do everything - organise the funeral, deal with his estate (he died intestate, so there could have been problems there, but thanks to an amazingly wonderful and kind solicitor/lawyer, things are working out, and I know that I'll be able to pay for his funeral out of the estate, thank God). Had to go to his place today and clear stuff out and go through dad's papers (it's Department of Housing, so it has to be done fairly soon), and did that with the support and help of some dear friends. Then there was the solicitor, the bank, the post office to redirect his mail to me, lots of phone calls, and so much else that still has to be done. Tonight I've got to write a eulogy for dad that the Minister will read for me, and prepare music that I want played during the service (I decided on Gabriel's Oboe and some other music from the movie The Mission, it's so beautiful).
So, I just wanted to thank everyone for their kindness, and I'll post again when I can.
Much love and warm hugs,
Vicki/Kendaa (and {{{{{{{{Lessa}}}}}} you hit it right on the head my friend)
Kendaa
And somewhere in there....
June 6 2001, 1:48 AM
there's got to be time to grieve my father. The tears come at the oddest times, but then there's something else that has to be done, and they have to be dried and put on hold, because it's stuff that simply has to be done. It's a nightmare and I just wish it would all go away and my dad would be on the other end of the next phone call, safe and sound.
Lil
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June 6 2001, 8:22 AM
I type this through tears in my eyes. Please PLEASE do not hesitate to let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
I love you.
Lil
Hebea
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June 6 2001, 10:58 AM
I've heard that god never gives us more than we can handle. I'd like to have a little talk with him because sometimes I think he's off by a mile.
Kendaa...my deepest sympathies on your loss and if there is anything I can do...let me know.
And remember....you are stronger than you think. I believe you once told me that too.
Hugs,
Hebea
LonesomeDove
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June 6 2001, 11:15 AM
My deepest sympathies are with you.
Love and prayers,
Lonesome Dove
Mermaid
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June 6 2001, 2:14 PM
Everone here has pretty much said what I want to say.
Be comforted in the knowledge that we are are here for you and want to help in bearing your loss. I know it's hard right now with all the paperwork, arrangements, settling affairs, etc. that has fallen on your shoulders. We are here to prop you up! We all love you dearly Hon!
At least he and June are together again.
Well, I can't type anymore, cuz, now I'm crying...
Mermaid
Mermaid
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June 6 2001, 2:16 PM
Everone here has pretty much said what I want to say.
Be comforted in the knowledge that we are are here for you and want to help in bearing your loss. I know it's hard right now with all the paperwork, arrangements, settling affairs, etc. that has fallen on your shoulders. We are here to prop you up! We all love you dearly Hon!
At least he and June are together again.
Well, I can't type anymore, cuz, now I'm crying...
Mermaid
Sarge
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June 6 2001, 6:44 PM
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Bluetopaz
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June 6 2001, 8:14 PM
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
You have been through so much, and somehow you will get through this also. The miles make it impossible to offer a shoulder to cry on or a helping hand with all the things that need to be done so I guess a cyber-hug will have to do.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Bt
Kendaa
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June 6 2001, 11:30 PM
Thanks again everyone. Just a quick little note to say the funeral is actually tomorrow at 10.30am, so any thoughts and prayers you could manage around then our time would be appreciated more than I can tell you.
Love and hugs,
V/K
Shambalayogi
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June 7 2001, 7:55 AM
Be patient with yourself and the grief thing and be patient with all the paper work, estate stuff, phone calls, etc., etc., etc. All that stuff seems endless but it will clear up. It just takes time to work it out.
The grieving will take time, too. Be patient with that stuff as well.
Shamba
Calico
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June 8 2001, 6:03 AM
I am very sorry at your loss.
Calico
who still misses her Mother but knows she is happier now.
SaraQuinn
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June 8 2001, 8:28 AM
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Blessed Be~
SaraQuinn
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