From a husband

I haven't seen any postings from asian husbands here so
I will post my experience to see what others think, and to
see if there are others like me lurking here.
I once let my wife, who is also asian, sleep with
a white friend of ours for a period of several months.
It happened in the mid-eighties, a couple of years after
we immigrated to the US. We had been married for about 3 years
then, and my wife worked as a nurse at a small city hospital.
One of the doctors at the clinic started to hit on her, and
it was no big deal first, because many of her white co-workers
(and even some patients) had come on to her at various
times before. My wife is kind of a flirt and she was
always popular with guys. I have always been very close to my wife and
she would come home and tell me about the guys who came on to her.
She was flattered by the attention and I was also kind of excited that
so many guys found her attractive. Anyway, this one doctor was
very persistent and my wife also kept flirting with him
for sometime. After a few months, I met him at the clinic
and he was really a very charming and friendly guy, and I
hit it off very well with him. He was older than us (late thirties,
we were in our mid-twenties), and I invited him to visit
our home because he mentioned to me that he loves
asian food and my wife is a very good cook.

He came over to see us the next weekend, and my wife was
excited like a schoolgirl to cook a big dinner for him.
During the dinner, he repeatedly complimented my wife on her
looks and started talking about how sexy asian girls are.
My wife kept blushing and it was clear to me that they
were both very attracted to each other. He clearly had
a full-blown asian fetish (though I didn't know about it
at that time). He also talked about his ex-wife (who was white)
and said that asian wives are great because they take
good care of their husbands, and stuff like that. He also said
that he had never been with an asian girl. Somehow I blurted
out that my wife had never been with an american guy either.
This was all the encouragement he needed, and as soon as
we were done with dinner, he put his arm around her and gave
her a hug and a kiss on her lips. She looked at me disbelievingly,
but I told her it was OK and to enjoy herself. I left
them alone for a minute and when I came back they were on
the living room couch and he was kissing her deeply and she seemed to be
melting in his arms. I wasn't bothered at all by this and in fact
found it very sexy to watch them together. He was a big guy
and was more than a foot taller than my wife. He undressed her fully
right there on the couch. I sat on a chair next to them and watched.
He asked me if it was OK with me and I smiled to
indicate my approval. He then went on to undress himself
and then picked up my wife and made her sit on his lap
and started sucking her tits and rubbing his cock inside her thighs.
He asked me for a condom and I gave him one. He made her put it
on his cock, and then lay back on the couch and had her
ride his cock for what seemed like a very long time.
After he came, he kissed and cuddled her for quite
a while and they seemed to really enjoy each other's bodies.
My wife stayed happy till he left, but started
crying afterwards worrying about what she did and about facing
him at work the next day. She got over that the next day,
because he was very discreet about it and nobody ever suspected
anything.

The first day set the pattern, and after that for several weekends he
would stop by at our home, sometimes staying overnight and
leaving the next morning. My wife was much more relaxed
after the first day and started enjoying the whole thing.
We were both pretty naive about sexual things then, and he
taught us both many new things and got her to do many things
she had never tried before. He liked to be quite aggressive with her
and treated her more roughly than I ever did.
She didn't seem to mind it much, and I let him push her
around a little bit. He clearly enjoyed the power he had over
her, and especially seemed to like to do her in front of me.
He would make her kneel in front of him to suck him. He always
fucked her either doggy style or by making her sit on his cock
(neither of which she had done before). He wanted her to be
fully nude most of the time, sometimes even while having
dinner or doing dishes. When he took a shower, he would take
her with him to the shower and have her soap, wash and dry him off.
I think he had a thing for having her as his little asian plaything.
She was happy to go along with his demands and I didn't mind
it much because he was very sweet and gentle with her otherwise.
He was very different from me physically - taller
and quite bigger. He had broad shoulders, a hairy chest
and strong arms, all of which my wife seemed to like.
He did have a bigger cock than mine, much thicker and a little
longer as well. He was circumsized (unlike me).
He also had a stiffer erection that pointed straight up, and more
importantly could last for a very long time. It took longer
for him to get an erection (usually she had to suck him for a while
to get him up) but once he was up he took a long time
to come. She would usually get herself off a couple of times while
riding his cock. Unlike many experiences I have read about wife-sharing,
we never did a threesome. A few times, I fucked her or had
her suck me in front of him (usually when he encouraged me to),
but I always preferred to just watch. Personally, I think it is
very sexy to watch a white guy with an asian gal because
they seem to go very well together. I guess it is kind of like
many white husbands who want to see their wives with black guys.

We also went to his house often. He had a nice house in
the suburbs with a lot more room for playing. He had a well-stocked bar
and we both liked to play drinking games with my wife, usually getting
her very drunk. She gets drunk easily and is a lot of fun
when she is drunk. We continued this for about 5 months,
after which he started dating an asian-american gal (who he
later married). He also started his own family practice clinic and my wife
stopped working with him. We continued to see him and his wife socially
but nothing more. We both also continued to see him as our
doctor for a couple more years till we moved to a different state.
He even did her pelvic exams and was her doctor when our daughter was born.
Overall, it was a great experience for us and it changed
my sex life with my wife completely. We never tried anything
like this with anyone else. She did feel guilty about
the whole thing a few times later (mostly due to her religious background)
but always got over it soon.

I would love to hear comments from anyone.