Hi Mei Mei,
I just read your account of your escapades and find them very pleasurable. My wife is also Asian and I'm delighted when she plays girl/girl. It's not often, but we recently met another couple (Caucasian husband/Asian wife). We've become very close to them and shared a room at a nude resort--and we're planning a much longer vacation with them and again sharing a room. There was lots of playing and the girls began fondling and kissing. I believe it will become more intense as we get together in the future. Both of us hubbies love it. My wife is a little shy about it, but slowly coming around. She enjoys sex but only has a little experience in girl/girl. Wish I knew how to encourage her to be more aggressive on this, as you are.
Both the other husband and I feel the same on this issue--we'd much rather our wives play with other Asians than to play with white girls. We find Asian women so much more erotic and beautiful. I can't understand your husband's anger over you and your girlfriends. He should be very thankful to have such an interesting wife as you. Perhaps you scared him and it threatened his masculinity, but it now seems that he's coming around to things. That's very good. I wish you all the best and many more great and loving experiences.