Forum Rules
This is a private site operated in a public manner. No matter who contributes
what to it financially, spiritually or socially, it will remain in the
sole ownership of its private owner — which is me.
Rules are hard things to define. The devious will hide behind flawed
rules and the wicked will exploit the absent ones. So I will not attempt
to define rules. Instead I will outline a few general guidelines and permit
myself and the Site Administrators to interpret them as they wish, maybe
to contradict them, maybe to add new ones as befits an occasion, and then
to ignore them again a week later.
It's Up To You
This site is a place where I hope a friendly community, welcoming to each
other and to outsiders, will form. It can be a place of enquiry, of answer,
of mirth, of sadness. You can discuss anything, not just The Moody Blues,
but be respectful to the feelings of others, even if those others are not
at this site. It can be a place where you can share your successes and
receive comfort for your failures. You can disagree with someone and they
with you, and sometimes these will be passionate and strongly put. That's
fine. But leave the personal abuse behind. Deliberately annoying someone
by constantly needling and/or undermining them will be dealt with. Sometimes
we will lose an argument and sulk a little. Well, that happens, but continual
sniping becomes very unpleasant indeed and will be stopped to protect its
target and maintain the site's atmosphere in a better condition. You'd
better read the section on Page Views
on the Forum Help page, too.
A whole range of actions may be taken against offenders. At the lowest
end: a quiet word perhaps by email. At the other end: exclusion from these
boards and a complaint of conduct made to a service provider (all posting
IP addresses are logged). There is no tariff rate for a predetermined list
of offences. There is no promise that one offender will be dealt with the
same as another, or that prior warnings will be given. There will be no
assumption of fire because someone yelled "Smoke!" and no assumption made
that an argument has to be the fault of both parties, or indeed of only
one. If there is trouble, the whole situation will be assessed, and something
suitable done about it.
It's a flexible arrangement.
I want people to be happy here, especially I want children to be safe
here. So obscene language (words, expressions or ideas) will not be tolerated.
But adult humour is, provided that is not taken beyond reasonable limits.
Finally, remember this, please. There is no right to free speech here.
It will do no good claiming that censorship is against some perceived right
of yours. If you say something I don't like then I can, and probably will,
cut it. I will not feel in the slightest guilty for doing that.
For all these words used here, I want the site to be as free as possible.
I want people to create and enjoy the wonderful exchanges I know can exist
on the Internet, without being hindered by petty rules and intrusive Administrators.
Trading
I appreciate that traders are only trying to make a living, but I don't
want them doing it on my space and at my expense. Advertisements will get
deleted. It's fine by me if a chatting member expresses a want for some
item, or someone offers a CD or two to a fellow chatter in course of a
conversation, and all that kind of sociable thing. But this is not a place
for fly traders to sell their wares.
WordSmith, Site Owner
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